Post by mobofoy932 on Feb 20, 2024 4:17:57 GMT
The easily with their peers are more willing to play in groups than others and immediately have many friends. Because social competences are relat to our personality traits and these are primarily a matter of genes and upbringing some people are born with high interpersonal skills. But like any other competence we can also develop and work on interpersonal skills. Its not as obvious as working on hard and technical skills but its not impossible either. How to develop interpersonal skills The most important thing is selfanalysis first of all it is worth considering which abilities we have and which ones we want to work on.
Try to observe how you behave in social situations whether you can communicate clearly and simply and pay attention to what others say about you and whether you tend to feel frustrat . If youve heard from your friends that youre a good listener or an interesting storyteller you probably have some good interpersonal skills. You can also read popular psychology books about interpersonal skills How to Win Friends Phone Number List and Influence People by Dale Carnegie or People Skills How to Assert Yourself Listen to Others and Resolve Conflicts by Dr. Robert Bolton. Organizing your knowledge understanding yourself and simple exercises will definitely help you.
To develop interpersonal skills you should practice them talk a lot with others and pay attention to your own way of communication try to develop empathy imagine yourself in a difficult situation and assertiveness. Research shows that social skills are also develop by reading fiction. Also pay attention to the emotions of those around you. If you see someone around you is stress or sad dont ignore it but try to talk to them and understand whats driving them. It is also worth practicing a positive attitude and approach to difficult situations including professional. Try to find positives even in difficult tasks and moments.
Try to observe how you behave in social situations whether you can communicate clearly and simply and pay attention to what others say about you and whether you tend to feel frustrat . If youve heard from your friends that youre a good listener or an interesting storyteller you probably have some good interpersonal skills. You can also read popular psychology books about interpersonal skills How to Win Friends Phone Number List and Influence People by Dale Carnegie or People Skills How to Assert Yourself Listen to Others and Resolve Conflicts by Dr. Robert Bolton. Organizing your knowledge understanding yourself and simple exercises will definitely help you.
To develop interpersonal skills you should practice them talk a lot with others and pay attention to your own way of communication try to develop empathy imagine yourself in a difficult situation and assertiveness. Research shows that social skills are also develop by reading fiction. Also pay attention to the emotions of those around you. If you see someone around you is stress or sad dont ignore it but try to talk to them and understand whats driving them. It is also worth practicing a positive attitude and approach to difficult situations including professional. Try to find positives even in difficult tasks and moments.